Day one of IVF and I'm already broke.

I went to the dr yesterday to get bloodwork done, got my IVF calendar and learned how to use/mix/dispense all 800 of the drugs I will be injecting into my body. (Kidding - there are only 4. But it is fairly overwhelming.) Also learned that at next week's appointment I will owe nearly $11K. And then I went back to work and paid for said drugs - $6500. I thought this was going to cost around $14K and saved $16K "just in case." And I'm already $1K in the hole. And we're not done yet. How in the HELL do people do multiple rounds of this without selling a kidney or taking out a mortgage on their home? Jesus. It's fairly disheartening. Plus the fact that I think I started my period, and will most likely have to postpone until December. Should know more next week. Trying to stay positive but it is HARD.